Sunday, November 28, 2010

Which is better love marriage and arrange marriage?

In my point of view love marriage is better. Because in this case of love  marriage the boy and the girl love each other. And they like each other before they are married. Thus they can lead a happy married life.
For marriage, love, understanding, habits, likings, qualities and choice from both the sides are important aspects, which can only be assessed when the boys and girls come into close contact.
         The relation of husband and wife is very important. It is therefore necessary that they should choose their life partner as per their choice. There are some silent points which only the boy and the girl will discuss and come to some conclusion before they are married. Parents are of previous generation. Their ideas and ways of looking at the boy and the girl are governed by their traditional beliefs. That will not suit the boy and the girl who are of modern ideas.
        Thus their own selection is more important. Many marriages which were arranged by the parents have failed as the boy and the girl could not meet and understanding each other. Thus the likings of the boy and the girl are necessary. There are many requirements of boys and girls from each other. Before they are married, they see these aspects. It has been seen that love marriages have been successful as the same are as per the choice of boys and tension of the parents are reduced. Love marriage is one of the solutions to tackle the problem of dowry system and crimes related to dowry and the marriages.

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